From a fiction piece by twilightsfic:
The Rules of Life according to Xander
Rule 1: Never be ashamed of who you are.
Rule 2: Never be afraid to ask for what you want.
Rule 3: Think for yourself. Don’t blindly follow others.
Rule 4: Help those who can’t help themselves.
Rule 5: Fight Back.
Rule 6: When you find love, don’t let it go.